ARTICLE FROM COSMOPOLITAN.COM
Want more intense, longer-lasting orgasms? If you're up for upping your orgasms game, then this orgasm technique called 'edging' will be right up your alley (wheyy)!
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Edging is the term used for a very specific technique, that requires you to bring yourself to the point of orgasm and then, just, stop.
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I know, it sounds hard because when you get to that point it can feel impossible not to let yourself go. But it's totally worth exercising a little bit of self-control.
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Why? Because when you do that orgasm is going to feel even amazing, longer-lasting and so much more intense.
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It takes a surprisingly short amount of time to become great at edging. In a few days, you’ll find the intensity of your orgasm improve and most women never look back after discovering the secret to ‘edging’!
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First thing you need to do is get to know you ‘Point of no return’ (PNR) where arousal meets orgasm. Learn to read your body and so you know at what point to stop stimulation.
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For most women their breathing becomes sharper, their movements more mechanical and they are fully focused on their vulva. When you reach this point stop all activity and let your body rest for a minute or two.
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It will be hard to stop but trust the technique… it will be worth it!
Once your sexual energy has reduced, continue with your session. Repeat this process for as many times as you can - three or four times should do it! The longer you practice for the better your orgasm will be.
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Be sure to use lots of lube, so your fingers glide pleasurably over your clit.
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Once you’ve mastered the technique with your fingers… you can add something a little more vibe… a wand vibrator is a really good shout. They're super powerful, so use yours on a low rumbly setting - and target your entire vulva, labia, the whole deal.
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The Doxy Wand is the sex toy most sex bloggers and writers are obsessed with, as it's super powerful and well-made. But if the size (and price) intimidates you, never fear. Lovehoney has a wide range including their mini wand vibrator which is a good start for wand beginners.
Like anything worthwhile, great ‘edging’ takes practice and patience. Lots of people who try it fall at the first hurdle, and this is down to one simple fact; orgasms are great and it’s hard to say no to one when it’s knocking at your door.
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But if you keep at it, the results will 100 per cent be worth it.
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Why not also check out my blog 'How I like to masturbate'.
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Read the original article at Cosmopolitan.com
