ARTICLE FROM GLAMOURMAGAZINE.CO.UK
What real women say about threesomes?
Like me maybe you've thought about threesomes before... but there’s a reason why so many women (nearly a third according to a survey) are into them. Threesomes can be an awesome way to explore your sexuality, whether you’re the guest star or with a partner.
Having a threesome can be an empowering way to explore.
“I’ve had a few threesomes and enjoyed them all. As a bisexual woman, it was a way for me to explore my sexuality with cis men and cis women. They happened randomly, unplanned, with friends, and there was always lots of booze involved. Though I’m sober now, I don’t regret those times. I actually feel empowered by those fun experiences. It’s also worth noting that just because someone is bisexual, that doesn’t mean they are automatically into threesomes.” Jenny, 35
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Every threesome is different.
“I’ve had several group sex experiences and find threesomes to be pretty nice. My first was with my spouse (who is non-binary) and a cis man, the second with my spouse and a cis woman. They were each really different and worthwhile! My spouse and I talked literally for YEARS beforehand and felt super ready for the potential good and difficult outcomes. I’ve honestly never felt more like they were my best friend. These were super special and hot moments! Now, the foursomes we’ve had? Those are a whole different world!” - Kayla, 42
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It is possible to have a threesome with friends…
“My threesome happened with two guy friends from college. To say it was unexpected is an understatement. The three of us passed out in one bed following an evening of heavy drinking. I already messed with one of the men previously so when I awoke and we began kissing in the middle of the night, it was not a big deal. Then the other guy friend joined in. It was late, we were still in the midst of a drunken night, and things just unfolded quickly. I recall a Kanye West album playing as we navigated who was in what position and taking the appropriate turn. The focus was on me, plus the guys enjoying themselves. We never discussed what happened but there was never an awkward moment among us either. We just moved forward, forward with a checkmark next to ‘so that happened." - Mandy, 31
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“Having threesomes was my fantasy. I’m a black, femme lesbian but didn’t start having them until I came out at the age of 27. All of my threesomes were with people I did not previously know because that’s the way I wanted it. I’ve heard scary stories about friendships ending over them, so I want all of mine to be anonymous. While all of my experiences were extremely pleasurable, I’m in a monogamous marriage and won’t be engaging in any more. And of course, I’m perfectly okay with that. They served their purpose for me. They were sexually freeing and affirming.” - Jane, 47
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It's one way to shake things up on a first date.
“Together as a couple, my boyfriend and I have dated a fair amount of women. On a normal first date, there’s a lot of pressure on both people trying to possibly start a relationship, but in this context it’s very clear that we’re all just here to make a connection, have fun, and not worry about whether this is ‘going somewhere.’ The sex is usually awesome. Sometimes I’m getting all the attention, and other times someone else has the floor, and you get give them a night to write home about. It reminds me what a great lover my boyfriend is, and I get to see him with fresh eyes. Plus, there are so many amazing women out there and I feel so lucky to be able to jump in bed with them.” - Isabel, 25
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Read the original article at Glamourmagazine.co.uk